I mean, seriously, how can you compare a friend with a snake when a lot of you is made of gold because of them?
You know this. Gold gets pure when it is burnt.
GOOD or BAD, friends make your world of reality.
They guide close and in distance.
Once she (anonymous) was being so confused about what to do with the reality. She was hearing the voice of her generation and came up with a question that ranked higher than anything else in her mind, “How can I get to know that I have chosen a real friend?”.
She was a university student and as it happens, friendships are full of questions at that point of life. From the very beginning, she had to face that difficult situation, and according to her, so many people were wearing masks around her. She was doubtful at first but she got the proof later. It was a path leading nowhere to go.
Friends are the most beautiful gifts in our lives. And, there is no probable theory to calculate who is a good friend and who is not. University life is a vast area to make friends. And factually, if you can make good friends out here, it will last long in your life. Before the university life, you actually don’t understand much of your friends because you are not that mature at that state. Here, the problem is, you start calculating what you get from them before you give them something – maybe it’s an emotional give and take, but mostly it’s worldly. That’s why you feel that they are wearing masks because they are also thinking the same.
As I was saying, there’s no particular theory, you have to experiment with every person around. You have to observe and choose from them based on your set parameters. What I used to do in my first years of university life, I used to experiment with every single individual person in my class. I used to understand them and make my proceedings according to it.
And, if you keep complaining that everyone is wearing a mask, then you are completely wrong at your universe. You need to change your mindset and explore the depth of a friendship. Because there are still so many good people around. You just have to take a step to find them out.
You may hang out with a particular circle, but try to make a good impact on everyone’s life so that they can recall you from years back for your good works.
They will remember you who you are. Because they are the best ties whom you can rely on for the rest of your life. And, you will eventually find that nobody else will, without them.
Happy Friendship Day!